Anonymous asked My secret? I walk by the train tracks everyday on my way to work and stand up on the bridge above them and look down and I just hope beyond hope that a little burst of wind or something will push me over and then when it doesn't I come home and mentally abuse myself to the point where I have to cut to stop me from destroying myself from the inside...I want to give up but I know if I finally killed myself my girlfriend would right after me...I don't know what to do and I can't keep going..help
my secret? i stopped looking when i crossed the street when i was 15. i only just started caring enough to look six months ago. we all go through bad times, some worse than others, but there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel. what you’re going through won’t last forever, but you have to go out there and get it. i didn’t get on the road to recovery by not doing anything to better myself. i had to get professional help, consciously take my medication every day, go to therapy, learn what to do instead of cutting myself, let people in, talk when i was sad, and most importantly, start loving myself. do i still have bad days? yes. will i struggle for the rest of my life? yes. but the important thing is that i’m trying and i don’t want to die anymore.
stand up and fight for yourself. remember that you have the freedom to choose the direction your life leads. if you’re not happy in your relationship and it’s not healthy, then you don’t have to be in it. if you’re not happy with your life, change it. i know you can do this. i believe in you.
take care. <3
i’m watching Sex Sent Me to The ER and this woman had a three and a half hour long orgasm and then after that she started having prolonged, spontaneous orgasms and they couldn’t figure out why but, turns out, the anti depressants she was on was making it a lot worse because she was BIPOLAR. DING DING DING.
i will say for the rest of my life that misdiagnosis of bipolar disorder as depression and prescribing a bipolar person anti depressants ARE HUGE FUCKING PROBLEMS. GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER DOCTORS.
Recovery isn’t supposed to be perfect. If you don’t mess up, it’s probably not recovery. It’s probably just denial.
exactly four months ago today, i was a wreck. i was at the end of my rope. i was the worst i had ever been. the week before, i had slit my wrists multiple times, cut up my thighs, and was taken to the hospital before being brought back home.
i shouldn’t have been brought back home.
bipolar disorder was something i’d come to associate with myself only a few months before. but depression was something that had become a part of who i was. depression had been with me for four years, but this was the worst i’d ever felt it. life wasn’t just gray, it was black. i was on several medications that weren’t doing anything for me at all. i was in weekly therapy but every session flew out of my mind the second i left.
i felt i had nothing to live for.
when i got home from work that night, i got one of my blades and took a bath. i cut my thighs so much that the water was tinted with red by the time i was done. i went over old cuts, newer cuts, scars; i didn’t care. i got out of the bath, went into the kitchen, grabbed my bottle of sleeping pills and a drink and went into my room. a few minutes later, i’d swallowed ten pills. i was stopped by my parents. i’d never been so disappointed in my life.
after that, i spent six days in the hospital recovering from my suicide attempt. i’d spent time in the hospital earlier that year, in March, but it was different this time. it didn’t give me as much hope as it had before. i slept through most of the first two days. they stripped me off all my meds and put me on completely new ones. i felt so lonely and helpless and hopeless. all i did was cry and scratch at my cuts and sleep way too much. when i got out, i still felt as if i was in a haze.
for a month after i got out of the hospital, i felt worse than i had before i’d gone in. life sucked. all i could think about was how much i wished my attempt had worked and i had died that night. i couldn’t do my schoolwork, i could barely do my job, i couldn’t socialize; i couldn’t do anything but sleep and eat and yearn for just one cut, just one fucking cut.
but i held out. i stayed strong. i threw out my razors. i took my pills responsibly. and i got better.
i spend a lot of my time talking with people who have been in the same position that i have. i’ve heard a lot of the same phrases that i used to use:
there’s no hope.
i’m never going to get better.
i’d be better off dead.
my life isn’t worth living.
i’m never going to be happy.
if you only remember one thing i say in this post, please please please have it be this.
you are worth it. life is worth it. there is help out there for you. you are going to get better. you are going to be so happy and so loved. just because it’s bad right now doesn’t mean it will always be bad. i don’t care how low you are, how far you’ve fallen, what kind of hell you’re going through; it WILL get better. you’re going to smile and laugh again. your cuts are going to scar. someone is going to love you. you will love yourself and your life.
i’m living proof.
HOPE. IS. REAL.
stay safe, stay lovely, and if you ever need somebody, i’m here.
I’m not ashamed to say I used to cut myself.
Because I USED TO cut myself.
I’m really sad tonight. I just want to cry and scream and cut and die. And I feel like I have no one to talk to. No one. So I’m just going to get into my pajamas, go get some ice cream, watch the X Factor and try not to bawl my eyes out. Crying is just no fun when you have no one there to comfort you.